Tall Mom tiny baby: My Kid's a Stoner {guest post}
                                                                                           

My Kid's a Stoner {guest post}

Friday, September 12, 2014

*Disclaimer: This guest post is written by Tall Dad. The following article is not representative of Mary Larsen’s thoughts or values.  She is not liable for the views expressed in the following commentary. Chances are, however, that if you're reading this, regardless of your tastes, we probably have at least one thing in common - we're both parents. And you know, just as well as I, that being a parent, either new, or grizzled veteran, is tough on anyone. So, take whatever you like from this article – good, bad, or ugly – and try to enjoy.








I'd had it.

You want to know how much sleep I've had in the past couple of days? About three hours.  Give or take a minute or two.  Itty Bitty has been teething like a son of gun, and he's starting to go through this weird rebellious phase where all he wants to do is bust my balls.  Thus, no sleep.

For the most part, I'm a pretty patient dad.  I swear.  Crying isn't an issue for me, I can see past all the mess, and I'm actually starting to like hanging out with the kid finally.  I've normally got it all under control.

But, today.  Oh, today....

Hit the jump to find out how some Pink Floyd saved the day...

Today was a whole different story.  I'll spare you the details of my hectic day at work as I am still unsure why I even put up with them.  But, when I came home from work, I was already tired, frazzled, and ready to see my wife.

I was, however, on a tight schedule too. I had to feed my son, bathe him, and get him ready for bed all within an hour and a half or so because after 6:30pm - ITTY BITTY SMASH! It was going to be tough, but I knew I could get all my crap done, and finally relax with my wife the way I needed to.

The little bugger, however, did not feel like cooperating with my carefully laid out plan. In fact, he walked over, squatted, and took a giant turd on my carefully laid out plan.

Instead of eating - there was enough running that even Jim Fixx would be proud.  Bathing? Please. Let's crawl all over every single piece of furniture in the house and proceed to fall off and cry. 

Getting ready for bed?  Well, eff that!  

We got cats to torture and tufts of their hair to shove in our mouths!  

"Time - out" was literally declared at least four times.

And then there was the crying.  Wait, no.  Not crying.  WHINING. You know that fake crying bullcrap your kid pulls that is just so much worse than "real" crying?  That constant drone of high pitched horror? Yeah, that.

It was pain.  Pain.  Clubber Lang style pain.

The more I tried to get back on schedule, the more whining ensued.  I'd had it up to my eyeballs with the screaming and he really pissed me off. Cue Jackson Brown because I was,  "Runnin' On Empty."

So punishment was going to be doled out.  I decided he was going to bed immediately.

Fail.

Nothing calmed Itty Bitty down.  Until, Tall Mom came to the rescue.

Why she did this, I still have no idea; but Tall Mom put headphones on his tiny skull and blared some random kids music. Think Barney, but, way more annoying. 

At any rate - the kid literally stopped crying and being such a whiney little dink.  In the words of a famous wizard with a lightning scar on his forehead, "IT WAS LIKE MAGIC!"
Instead of the crying, now we had the awkward white guy dancing and cute smiles.

Crying? Check. Bed? No check. Yet.

Now I needed to calm him down in a different way because he was excited to hear his music.  If I took it away, there would be more crying.  The horror....

OK, headphones coming off wasn't an option. Neither, now, was bed. Yet, hanging out wasn't either - I was sick of him. But I still needed an answer. Then I came up with the best idea ever.

Keep the headphones on and lull him to sleep without doing any of the normal work.
"What music has always calmed me down?" I asked myself.  Nora Jones? Nope, to jazzy right now.  The Lost soundtrack? Nah, too slow, and wouldn't capture a one and a half year old's attention.  Loreena McKennitt?  Love her, but too authentic.

Then, it hit me.  Stoners are always chill.  No matter what. Of course, for the most part, what's the cliche stoner album?  DARK SIDE OF THE MOON!

Pink Floyd always calmed me down as a stoner.  Even to this day, it still blows my world. So, I brought up DSOTM on my phone, plugged those trusty headphones in, and let David Gilmour and Roger Waters run their magic on my son.

I'm not kidding, for forty five minutes, my son laid flat on my bed and relaxed. All I could do was watch as his eyes wandered into space as he jived to the unique sounds and experienced some of the blissful heaven.
Song after song, he requested more, and he got it.  Why not, right?  He was finally quiet. I'd play Liberace if it meant a small measure of peace.

Pink Floyd hit him though.  He just seemed to dig it.  And it was glorious.

Itty Bitty jammed out to, "Time," "Brain Damage," "The Great Gig In The Sky," and countless more. Pretty much the entire album.  I would have even played The Wizard of Oz if I had the time and patience :)

I couldn't believe it, Itty Bitty was seriously entranced. I'd never seen anything like it.

No words.  No white guy dancing. Not even a random movement.  Nothing.

He just sat and soaked it in.  (Which, by the way, is the recommended way to listen to DSOTM)  I finally had a chance to relax, kiss my wife hello, and continued on my with my night.  For good measure, I even threw in some selections from "The Wall." (Because if you're gonna go stoner, you gotta go full stoner.)
But, Pink Floyd saved my sanity tonight. Know that, and use it as necessary.

Things may be get bad, but it ain't THAT bad. When you need to distract your kid and chill, throw in some Pink Floyd.  Turn him into a stoner :)

It won't hurt your kid, I swear. Because. truthfully, if DSOTM worked for my kid, guess what?  You're kid's gonna turn out just fine.

You just have to thank god for Pink Floyd and their amazing album.  It may have even sparked a new routine in the Tall household.  Bath, dinner, and Pink Floyd.  Every night.

Because, boy, I'd had it and I think I have the perfect antidote.




What music seems to calm down your family?



25 comments:

  1. Whatever it takes, right? Music always helped my kids relax, too!

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  2. Oh seriously so cute! My kids like any kind of music - even heavy metal~~~

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    1. Get your little ones some Motor Head if they like heavy metal Lemmy Kilmister is the man.

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  3. I love this. I have been in that moment where you feel like everything you do will not work. Music definitely helps my little one but the other two are a bit harder to please.

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  4. Too cute. I never even thought about a certain type of music that our daughter liked. That's genius and I'm so glad it finally worked out for you on that crazy, crazy day!

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  5. I love Pink Floyd and this is awesome. My kids have always listened to Pink Floyd with me.

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    1. Me too. Whenever I hear Nicki Minaj or some other horrible thing playing in the house, I make sure to counter it with something like Pink Floyd or The Band.

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  6. You crack me up! No lullabies! You have to do what works right?

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  7. This is so funny! The only thing that would calm down my daughter as a baby was the sound of a Dirt Devil vacuum cleaner. So I totally understand, you do what it takes.

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    1. We never could find anything to calm my nephew down. We ended up going the "cry it out" route. It works, but man...

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  8. Ha, ha, ha... I can't stop laughing at whiney little dink! HA! i think we have all been there before :)

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    1. For real. You love your kids to pieces, but sometimes you're just like, "You're such an @$$ right now."

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  9. Thi spost is hilarious. I only laugh because I have so been there in your shoes! My kids both love Fall Out Boy and Queen... go figure!

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  10. What? That is hilarious! Maybe I need to bust my Pink Floyd back out and get back to my stoner roots too.

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    1. You can't go wrong with anything involving Pink Floyd. It's a statistical impossibility.

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  11. I was laughing so hard. I loved the first picture with the headphones on and your face just says it all.

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  12. I love this post. Pink Floyd is awesome, and I'm not surprised it worked at all. If that can't calm you down, nothing can.

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  13. But.... how could you be mad at that face?! Dude... I so feel your pain! But if the little man wants some Floyd this young, then it's kind of a sign he's going to be so full of awesome already right?!
    I saw Pink Floyd when I was about 7 months preggo with my oldest. 1987. He turned out just fine. You're on to something!

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  14. SO fun. When my kids are acting rowdy, I turn up the classical music in the car and it calms them down ASAP. There is just something about the soothing tunes that settles them.

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  15. This so full of awesome that I had to read it out loud to my husband. With 19 month old twins that still don't sleep through the night - they are about to get an overdose of Pink Floyd! :D

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  16. This is a great idea! I think I will have to give Pink Floyd and some ear phones a try! :)

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    1. Some other great bands for baby sleepy time are The Greatful Dead (acoustic extended jams), Otis Reading, and Barbara Streisand.

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  17. Okay! I'm off to Amazon to buy some headphone for my toddler. And then, rummage through our Cd's for the pink floyd albums.

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  18. if try rock n roll music, oh , unbelievable
    kid cloth

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  19. This is hilarious! I can definitely relate! Now I know all I have to do at night is throw on some stoner music. Thanks for the best parenting advice I've gotten in a long time!

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